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Out & Proud 2024
It’s never easy to narrow down the many incredible individuals in our LGBTQ community to just one list — but we’ve done our best.
OutSFL is honored to share these stories and celebrate the remarkable people featured in this year’s list.
You’ll read about folks like Don D'Arminio, a dedicated commissioner in Wilton Manors who consistently gives back to the community; Maxx Fenning, a dynamic Gen Z change maker; Donna Weinberger, who is making strides in tackling addiction within the queer community; and Ximena Dipietro, a trailblazing transgender student and activist.
These are just a few of the inspiring individuals we’ve highlighted. Be sure to explore the full list.
What makes these people truly significant isn’t just that they are LGBTQIA — it’s their accomplishments, their dedication, and the impact they’ve made. They embody the spirit of being Out & Proud, serving as role models not only for our community but for future generations. They remind us that we are no longer on the sidelines; we’re front and center, leading the way.
I hope these stories inspire you as much as they’ve inspired me.
Welcome to the 2024 South Florida Out & Proud list, a celebration of activists, business leaders, organizers, and more — individuals who are out, proud, and making a difference in our local LGBTQ community and beyond.
Jason Parsley, Publisher
Thank you to all of our writers who worked on the Out & Proud list.
Project Managers
John Hayden & Mary Rasura
Writers
Denise Brown • Kim Swan • John McDonald • John Hayden
Mary Rasura • Amancio Paradela • Deon C. Jefferson • Jesse Monteagudo
Check out our list below:
Bree-Anna Obst - The Theatre Maker
Stephen Kitsakos - The Operatic Visionary
Ximena Dipietro - The Trans Christian Activist
Von Biggs - The Advocate for the Underserved
Tom Lander - The Fighter for Queer Youth
Terry Dyer - The Agent of Change
Steven Butterman, Ph.D. - The Educator of LGBTQ Topics
Stephen Tendrich - The Prostate Cancer Awareness Advocate
Ryan Young - The Talk of the Flock
Ryan Thompson - The Night Runner
Robert Cole - The Public Service Patron
Q-Mitch Jones - The Benevolent Showman
Nicole Halliwell - Mrs. Go-Getter
Michelle Santos - The Protector of Youth
Michael Goodman - The Publicist
Maxx Fenning - The Gen Z Change Maker
Maxine Lemarr - The Musical Lesbian Thespian
Marc Martorana - The Generous Kitchen Maestro
Lali Safavi - The Lesbian Publisher
Kim Blandon - The Community Organizer
Karen Kelley - The Preserver of LGBTQ History
Justin Jones - The Peace Preacher
John Mather & Ryan Maloney - The Social Butterflies
Jenn Stefanacci Portier - The Entrepreneur
Jason R. Hughes - The Art Champion
Edward Otto Zielke - The Melodic Marketer
Edward Summers - Supporting Homeless Youth
Douglas Houghton - Trailblazing Nurse Leader
Donna Weinberger - The Addiction Recovery Advocate
Don D’Arminio - The Commissioner
Diane Pappafotis - The Women’s Community Coordinator
David Jobin - The Philanthropy Leader
Dan Rios - The Brand Ambassador
Chuck King - The King of The Drive
Caridad Moro-Gronlier - The Poet
Avion Goordeen - The Compassionate Cyclist
Auntie Maim - The Audacious Aunt
Alison Burgos & Michelle Alexis Gaber - The Ultimate Power Couple
She’s not just the talent, she’s the boss, and Ms. Halliwell doesn’t wait for an opportunity to come to her. “I'm not going to sit around and wait for anybody to throw me a bone! You know, a lot of people just sit and wait for work. I will create it.”
For trans activist Liam Lipham, holding space for someone to be their whole self is more than an occupation, it's a duty. Growing up in small town Missouri, Lipham found little room to explore his identity without scrutiny, only to join the Navy’s “SeaBees” Construction Battalion right out of high school during the “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” era.
Stephen Tendrich is a Native Floridian born into a deaf family. He is now a Broker Associate with Atlantic Properties International.
Bree-Anna Obst is the managing director at Thinking Cap Theatre, a nonprofit professional theater company focused on insightful and socially aware productions.
Lali Safavi saw a gap in South Florida’s queer media scene and filled it with a new publication known as SkirtSoFLo that is focused on arts and culture for LGBTQ women. She is from DC and was inspired by their community publications such as the Washington Blade. Another inspiration was Curve Magazine, a lesbian publication founded in 1990.
Maxx Fenning has accomplished much beyond his years - he recently graduated with his bachelor’s in business administration from University of Florida while also leading PRISM, a nonprofit focused on sexual education for LGBTQ+ youth in South Florida.
After working 25 years as a nurse in the trauma intensive care unit at Jackson Memorial Hospital, Douglas Houghton embarked on a new and exciting adventure as the organization’s first Director of Advanced Practice.
As the Director of Marketing and Sponsorship for the Gay Men's Chorus of South Florida (GMCSF), Edward Otto Zielke combines his life's passions of marketing and music. A New Jersey native, Zielke spent his formative years performing in theater productions, national tours, and summer stock. He majored in musical theater at New Jersey City University.
Caridad Moro-Gronlier was one of OutSFL’s six queer poets featured for National Poetry Month in April. A Cuban-American, her poetry collection "Tortillera" embraces and reclaims the word "tortillera," a term for lesbian in Spanish often regarded as a slur in some Cuban-American homes. Moro-Gronlier moved from Los Angeles to Miami at 9 years old.
Miami is back for the LGBTQ community, and much of that is due to the work of Edward Summers. He’s nearing the end of his first year as executive director of Pridelines. Over the past few years, its influence and impact were contracting. Since taking the reins, he’s moved the group back into the city and rallied support.
Don D’Arminio’s love of Wilton Manors is as big as his shoulders are broad. That’s a good thing because he carries many of the city’s issues on his back.
Diane Pappafotis is the Women with Pride coordinator for The Pride Center at Equality Park in Wilton Manors. Women with Pride is a program at the center that creates spaces for a queer women’s community. Pappafotis is also the marketing director for SkirtSoFlo, a local publication focused on LGBTQ+ women.
Stephen Kitsakos found his artistic home in Key West at The Studios of Key West, which he noted is the largest interdisciplinary arts organization in the Florida Keys.
In tough times, tough people rise to meet the occasion. That was the case for Karen Kelley. “I decided rather than screaming at the TV, I'd get involved.”
Maxine Lemarr has been a professional musician, entertainer, and singer for 50 years. She is now retired and serves as the Music Director for Lesbian Thespians, a performing arts group founded and led by women.
Ximena Dipietro is a 23-year-old senior at Florida Atlantic University studying history with a minor in peace, justice and human rights. She is a transgender woman, Mexican American, and also identifies herself as a Christian pacifist.Dipietro was raised Baptist and converted to Quakerism a couple of years ago.
Her smile makes others smile. Her skills make others better. Michelle Santos is a Senior Youth Therapist at SunServe, a job that allows her to connect with members of the community in a one-on-one setting.
Maddox Max hails from Los Angeles and made his way to South Florida looking for a change of scenery after his divorce, “I just decided I would come out here. I was visiting [my best friend] often, and I loved South Florida. I would always end up extending my trips.”
Donna Weinberger is the founder of Transpire Help, a nonprofit focused on substance abuse recovery for members of the LGBTQ+ community. They are also the CEO of Inspire Recovery, an LGBTQ-affirming addiction rehabilitation center, as well as the CEO of Pride Detox, an LGBTQ-affirming detox and rehabilitation center. They also recently opened an LGBTQ-affirming detox and rehabilitation center in Homestead called Q Space Detox.
It’s never easy to narrow down the many incredible individuals in our LGBTQ community to just one list — but we’ve done our best.