My girlfriend and I have had a few threesomes with other women. All of my friends are jealous because she is so open-minded, but now she wants a threesome with another dude. I’m not into that. She’s bisexual. I’m not. Am I being selfish for resisting? Or is she wrong for pushing this on me?

I’m a straight girl dating a guy. Recently, he told me he wants to be pegged. I don’t want to sex shame him, and I’m open to the idea, but now I’m worried he’s gay and just in the closet. Should I encourage him to explore with other guys just to be sure? How can I know for sure he’s straight now?

I have been married to my husband for nearly 20 years now and as you might think things have gone a little stale, but that’s not why I’m writing.

I was invited to a wedding for a family member, but my mother wasn’t invited. I want to attend, but I’m afraid if my mother finds out that she will be crushed.

Almost two years ago, I loaned a friend $5,000, interest-free, who promised repayment would come from an anticipated return of a security deposit and other sources within several months.

My husband and I have been married for eight years.