I met this guy, and we have been hooking up for a while.

It’s not really a relationship, but definitely enjoy each other sexually. We have a lot of fun together. But he is pretty much insatiable. He pressures me to feed him, and it’s getting a little more demanding. He has started asking if I will meet him at lunch on work days just to drain me. Recently, he asked me if I would save my cum in a vial when I jerk off so he could drink it later. On one hand, it’s kind of hot, but also kind of weird to give someone your DNA in a vial. Is this as weird as it seems to me?

Dear DNA Donor,

I’m not going to lie, that’s not a question that I have ever been asked before, but I will start by saying that I don’t kink shame. What’s not for me could be for someone else. It’s fine for you to feel a little uneasy about something that is new or outside your comfort zone. It doesn’t sound like you’re opposed to your on-call hoover, but more that his insatiable appetite may be startling to you. Maybe you’re also feeling a little pressure to perform.

No matter what, you have to tell him. If you think it’s creepy that he wants your nectar on demand, then say that. If the frequency is too much, then say that. If you’re just not into it, then also say that. He’s being very clear in what he wants. You should do him the same courtesy.

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John Porter is an entrepreneur and founding partner at Oasis Asset Management. He has served as a political organizer and strategist within the Democratic Party, as well as serving as an executive board member for the Miami Yacht Club.

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