The last three guys I dated wanted some sort of open relationship. The guy before that repeatedly cheated on me.
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I’m 46, and I have been living in South Florida since my 20s.
My husband and I moved to Wilma five years ago. We have developed a large circle of great friends, and we do a LOT of entertaining - mostly small dinner parties.
I work for a pretty conservative company, and I have never really shared my personal life at work.
I struggle with maintaining my attraction and sexual desire for guys I date. It sucks.
Dear John, I'm disappointed and not sure where else to turn for thoughts.
I really want to be sober. I've struggled with addiction my entire life as far as I can remember.
Dear John, I have been with my husband for 17 years. We met when I was 25 and he was 30.
So here’s my dilemma. My boyfriend is a solid 9. Not a Grindr 9, but like a real 9. I love being on bottom.
Dear John,
I don’t know what has happened to me, and I’m embarrassed to ask my friends.
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