When I have an “enemy” who was once a friend, I feel diminished. I recently became aware of the chaos in my soul, and it didn’t feel good. I felt stuck in old dramas that disturbed my sleep and troubled my day. 

As we have done for the past 55 years since Stonewall, we will continue to stand tall, proud, and ready to wage the good fight. This isn’t new; there have been times when elections in this country directly impacted our lives. Let’s reflect on those moments, the challenges we faced, and how we not only survived but made progress.

Today is a dark day in America. None of us can be certain of what the future holds, but it’s clear that this moment will embolden the most hostile and intolerant elements of our society — especially those who target the LGBTQ community.

If my boyfriend doesn’t make me cum, should I stay with him?